November 10th, 2004
|08:58 am - Rant on my love life part 2|
Yes, why do people like to criticize others and belittle them? I am beginning to get tired of all the crap that others are heaping on me right now. They think that I am not worthy of love. Well I am and I know that. I love Sabot there that said people back off. Let me enjoy this happiness. If you are unhappy with your life then deal and find happiness yourself. I think that you must be happy with yourself first then you can be happy with another. I was happy but Sabot adds more to my life. He completes me as a person. The yin and yang. So to all of you that feel that I am making a mistake, I am not. He is the one I want to be with, to love, to cherish and to enjoy the rest of my life with!!!!
Current Mood: indescribable
I've never quite understood why people feel the need to involve themselves in others' love lives...how did they become involved and feel it was OK to toss in their $0.02? They honestly don't have the right...
And sorry I missed yer call..left my phone in the truck! Erf...
I don't know why some people need to stick their nose in the affairs of other people, and then cut them down and harshly criticize them.
I'm so glad that you and Sabot are happy together, and I wish the two of you the best of luck. :)
Seriously, I don't understand what is wrong with the relationship between you and Sabot. I know he broke up with Overzen not too long ago but that has nothing to do with the current relationsip!
I wish you and Sabot much happiness together :)
|Date:||November 10th, 2004 05:51 pm (UTC)|| |
Just ignore them kitty, there will always be someone trying to get in the way of your happiness, it's how the world works. Don't pay attention to them and just be happy ^_^
Feh, they're trolls. Like furahi
sez, ignore 'em.
Living well is the best revenge.
|Date:||November 10th, 2004 07:41 pm (UTC)|| |
Look how popular "The Sims" is.
People love to control and manipulate and torture.
It sounds like you've got a good thing going with Hoof, I mean Sabot.
Go for it!
admittedly, i'm jealous.
admittedly, i'm envious.
admittedly, i'm peeved.
That doesn't give me the right to interferre with your and Sabots life any more than it gives me the right to blow the empire states building.
What it does give me the right to however, is to make the comment that i'm jealous, envious and miffed. Explain WHY i'm jealous, envious, and miffed. And hope that my explaination influences the "condition" somewhat or alot, to change towards something that is more pleasing and acceptable to me. Something doesn't make me Jealous, envious and miffed or at least not as much.
Beyond that, people get way to involved in other peoples lives, because its human nature to control those things around us, so that we either have better productivity, better safety, better comfort, better ???????. Societal evolution must create and accept the fact that its human nature to do those things, then accept that as an individual we must act with a certain amount of self-denial and self-preservation when interacting with others. We must seperate out our emotions and deal with the simple logic of the situation. Emotions come into play AFTER a decision is made, and a solution proposed. If mercy is required, Emotions decide how much and to what extent. If justice is required, then Emotions AND logic/reason dictate that.
When it comes to controling others lives, we have to realize; Each have free agency, each have the right to screw up thier lives thru trial and error, IF THEY WANT TO. All we can do is try to limit the collateral damage that may occure. JUst like the guy who got fired for handing out condoms on Campus. (was a religious college campus) Or, u can look at it like, Giving the kid a helmet, that insists on running out into the street into on comming traffic. He's obviously still going to do it no matter how much we explain the consequences of his actions/acts; so do we lock him away for his own safety where he'll never learn and then live the rest of his life for him? or do we pass him a safety helmet and pads, and say, okay, go run into traffic, but if your hurt you can't blame me for not trying to stop you.??
So, to those who insist that your making a mistake with Sabot.... Perhaps they know something you don't, but they're not sharing that information with you. At which point in time, it WOULD be THEIR fault if you get hurt (well not entirely, but its a good start). They should share their information/feelings on why they think your making a mistake. Otherwise, BUTT OUT!!!! I'm assuming you know of Sabots history, as much as he knows about yours, your okay with things obviously otherwise you wouldn't be doing what your doing. So all we can do now is sit back and wait.
SO i say, Congratulations on 'connecting', even though as i say, i'm jealous and envious. ;) I wanted to get to play with Sabot before he finally hooked up again. But you beat me to it. :P
Stay safe, Stay Warm, and Stay Happy :)
Well, Carol and I have a very open and loving relationship. There is very little jealousy is communication is open and honest. So I don't think she would mind if we "played" a bit. *grins*
I don't mind if you want to play...but it is all up to Sabot...
*engulfs you in a warm bearhuggle* EVERY creature is worthy of love.
You're right, you must be happy with yourself before you can be happy with another. My favorite quote on the subject, oddly enough, is from the movie Cool Runnings. 'A gold medal [love] is a wonderful thing. But if you're not enough without it, you'll never be enough with it.'
Many people, I've found, like to project their own unhappiness on others. But you can't listen to them. YOU know the truth of your heart, and you must follow it. To Hell with what anyone else says.
I wish you all the peace, love, and happiness in the world, dear cat. *hugs*
Hey Carol, it's Aurora from MFF ^.^ Just thought I'd sent you a shout to let you know I've added you to my LJ and if you'd like to contact me, feel free to message me on ICQ: 20749244, MSN: mistressrora(at)hotmail.com or AIM: Indibat
It was GREAT meeting and talking with you at the con, hope you had as much fun as I did ^.^